Dating Advice Archives - April 2002

TABLE OF CONTENTS:

1.         10 THINGS MEN HATE ABOUT THE WAY WOMEN   RESPOND (OR NOT) ON DATING SITES –
            PART TWO!

2.         SUN, SEA AND………?

3.          FOR GUYS WHO WANNA GET LAID……RETURN OF THE MACK? 

1.      10 THINGS MEN HATE ABOUT THE WAY WOMEN RESPOND (OR NOT) ON DATING SITES – PART TWO!

Last month I had some fun running a list of moans and groans I’ve had from women about men using dating sites.  Now it’s the guys’ turn! 

1.    When I’m chatting away merrily with a woman one minute and she doesn't return my mails or messages the next...just disappears.  It leaves me wondering what I said wrong; was it that fact that I mentioned my kids or that my ex said I had smelly feet?

2.    When she posts a picture of a gorgeous woman in her thirties...then turns out to be 45 years old, and 50 pounds heavier.  Hey, I might have liked her as she is now, I'd have just liked to know WHO I was meeting!

3.    When I post her a first instant message in chat and she doesn't have the good grace to say "thanks, but no thanks".

4.    When she starts giving me the 3rd degree in the second e-mail...."what do you think of women staying at home; do you expect a woman to pay for dinner; do you want more children?"

5.   Messages from prostitutes - they scare me!!

6.    Airheads.

7.    Those "webrings" of women who band together on a dating site and swap notes with each other to find out if they're being played by the men they're in contact with.  You know what?  That makes me feel like I'M being played.

8.    Not having photos posted; I like to know who I'm talking to.

9.    Being pestered when I've said I'm not interested.

10.  Being used as an unpaid relationship therapist/coach, when I'm in search of something good for myself.  Yep, I know I should just get the h*** out, but it's hard to knock someone who's already having a hard time.....

SO…..CONSIDER YOURSELF WARNED GIRLS!!!

2.         SUN, SEA AND………..?

It’s time to start thinking about that summer holiday…which can be a bittersweet occupation if you’re single, whether happily so or not.

Singles cruises are booming within the travel industry.  They offer a stress free, action packed and fun filled opportunity to have a great holiday at the same time as meeting new people…without the worry of who to go to dinner or drinks with.

If you’re thinking of taking a cruise as a single, pick a specialist company or one offering specialist singles cruises, or else you might end up with couples and/or people in a different age group from yourself.

Try the following for more information;

http://www.singles-cruise.com/

http://www.cruisecritic.com/interests/intarticle.cfm?ID=18

http://www.cruisingforlove.com/

4.         FOR GUYS WHO WANNA GET LAID……RETURN OF THE MACK? 

 "Advanced Macking" is doing for you guys what "The Rules" did
for girls!! 

You’ve heard of “The Rules”, right?  Regarded by many as THE revolutionary, post-feminist guide, this book (there are two actually) set the dating world ablaze a few years back when it instructed women on how to get their men by using the old “treat ‘em mean, keep ‘em keen” trick.

Now there’s a guide out for men; “Advanced Macking – The Lazy Man’s Guide To One Night Stands”. 

As you might guess from the title, this is a manual which is a lot less concerned with keeping a woman, than it is about telling men exactly what they need to do to “get” women ...and keep getting them. 

Personally, I thought it was a riot, but then, I’m Teflon hardened against lounge lizards and the like!  If you’re a guy that wants to meet women, this book has some solid, no-b******t advice to offer that is, it has to be said, even from a female perspective, straightforward and honest. 

The great thing is you can get loads of advice for free.  Visit their site to read sample chapters;

“How and Why To Whisper To Women”
“The Ignition- Key Method: The Boob Touch”
“The Subliminal Leg Touch Technique”

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Till next time,

Erika